Category Archives: Self Healing
Forgiving others and ourselves releases us from the past. When we make all of our decisions based on past experiences if our pat experiences are negative, then what we will be experiencing in the present will be hurtful or negative. As long as we hold on to the past we cannot live in the present.
Release guilt so your life can help you move forward. It takes a lot of energy to hold on to people who have hurt you. Negative emotions like anger, guilt, fear, frustration, and resentment can attach the body and cause illness. Chronic negativity alters our nervous system functions and suppressed our immune system. And this can lead to problems that include more frequent colds and flus, fatigue, hypertension, stroke, asthma, and migraines, and cancer just to name a few of the illnesses.
When we make peace of mind our goal, we take responsibility for our own happiness—that’s what heals. When we forgive, it’s a voluntary gift of mercy to the other person. Forgiveness is not something we do, forgiveness is something we experience. Forgiveness is healing.
Practice forgiveness. You’ll live longer, happier and healthier.
Nearly everyone will have trouble sleeping from time to time. You may have trouble falling asleep or staying asleep. Either way, these challenges can affect your life in many negative ways. The good news is that there are simple strategies you can use to get a better night’s sleep.
Try these strategies to chase away your insomnia and wake up refreshed:
1. Keep the lights off. Even small lights can affect your body’s natural ability to determine night from day. Turn off all the lights when it’s time for bed, including nightlights, bathroom lights, and computers. Sometimes even the neon numbers from your alarm clock can be bothersome.
2. Wind down at night. Avoid trying to transition straight from an activity to sleep time. This can cause your mind to race continuously. Approximately 30 minutes before you go to bed, do something calming in order to ease your mind. Many people find activities such as praying, meditating, reading, or listening to relaxing music to be the perfect sleep inducer.
3. Keep yourself on a schedule. It’s always a good idea to have your life on a general schedule. It works well for babies, toddlers, and for you too! Schedules allow you to set up natural rhythms in your body and mind.
* Sleeping for different lengths of time can confuse your body. If you have trouble sleeping one night, get up at the normal time and remain on your normal schedule the next day.
4. Keep an eye on your diet. Eating a balanced diet gives you a better chance for a good night’s sleep. It’s especially important to pay attention to the things you eat and drink in the few hours before your bedtime.
* It’s best to avoid anything containing sugar, caffeine, alcohol, high fructose corn syrup, or red dyes shortly before you sleep.
* Try drinking chamomile tea before bed. Chamomile is a calming herb.
5. Exercise during the day. Keeping yourself on a regular exercise routine will actually help you get a quality night’s rest. Even 30 minutes of light exercise can benefit you in many ways.
* Avoid exercising right before you go to bed, because exercise energizes you.
6. Avoid naps. Naps can be tempting, especially during a lull in the afternoon. However, some people tend to have trouble with their nighttime sleep if they nap during the day. If you feel that you must take a nap, try to make it only 15 to 30 minutes. That should be enough time to give you a little rest before continuing with your day.
7. Ensure you’re comfortable. Your bed might even be interfering with your sleep. Are you having issues with the quality of your mattress or the type of blankets and pillows you use? If they feel uncomfortable in any way, try changing to a different style.
* What about the positions that you use for sleep? Do you have plenty of room to stretch out and get comfortable?
8. Check the temperature. Determine the temperature you enjoy sleeping at during the night. It’s usually a few degrees cooler than you’ll keep the house during the day. You may want to experiment with adjusting the temperature.
* Also pay attention to the humidity to keep you from feeling stuffy. During the winter, the heater can dry out the air and a humidifier in your bedroom can help you breathe easier.
A good night’s sleep is critical to your health and enables you to live an active, fulfilling life. Just keep searching for a strategy that works for you. If you continue to have trouble sleeping after trying these tips, keep in mind that you can always talk with a physician about your insomnia.
A life coach can bring you many benefits, including putting you on the fast track to success. But have you ever considered the possibility of being your own life coach? Being the one that holds you accountable? Being the one that brings out the best in you?
Yes, the best life coach just may be the one that’s inside you! After all, no one knows you better than you do.
As your own life coach, you can set your life on a different path. You may end up discovering things about yourself that you never knew were there. These discoveries can make you happy and bring you more success and fulfillment than you’ve ever known before.
Your path in coaching yourself may not be the same as that of another coach, but as long as you’re making positive steps forward, you’ll achieve the goals you desire.
Follow these tips for a positive experience in being your own life coach:
1. Write down your expectations. Figure out exactly what you want to accomplish in your “sessions” with yourself. Do you have certain expectations? Explore how you’re going to meet those expectations.
2. Give yourself adequate time. Just as with another life coach, give yourself time to sort through your thoughts and make plans. Have meetings with yourself and go over an agenda of items that you can reflect on.
3. List your positive attributes. A life coach focuses on the positive. Leave your negativity at the door and think about all the things that you like about yourself. Make a list of the things you’re good at, you’re happy about, and you’d like to accomplish in life.
4. Concentrate on the end goal. Determine your life purpose and draft a plan to help fulfill that purpose. You might have more than one goal in mind, and if so, plan for all of your goals. Keep that end goal in mind at all times and picture yourself getting there.
5. Discover how to motivate yourself. Since you know yourself best, you’ll be able to figure out which motivators work best on you. What has motivated you to accomplish tasks in the past? Use these motivation techniques in order to keep yourself on track so that you don’t fall victim to procrastination.
6. Make changes. If you’ve identified changes that you want to make in your life, now’s the time to plan those changes. Rather than jumping into drastic changes all at once, guide yourself through a series of smaller changes for greater success.
7. Check up on yourself. Hold yourself accountable to you, as your coach, at regular intervals. Are you happy and on the path to achieving your goals? If not, where are you currently lacking? During a check up with yourself, you can identify problems before they get too big. Then you can set yourself onto the right path again.
Being your own life coach may be challenging, but it can also be truly rewarding. In the process, you’ll learn some beneficial skills that will help you for your entire lifetime. You may find that you’ve become more self-sufficient. In addition, your confidence and self-esteem will soar as you guide yourself to achieve your ultimate goals.
If you have trouble keeping yourself motivated, then you can always explore the opportunity to have a trained coach steer you through life’s challenges.
Listening to your body’s needs is vital to attaining and maintaining the health you deserve. Sometimes, you can push your body too far without even realizing it. When you learn to listen to your body’s cues, however, you can live a happier and calmer life.
Getting in Touch with Yourself
You might think that you’re already in touch with yourself, but ensure that you’re in touch with all of yourself.
Sometimes you might be tempted to live all in the mind and it’s no wonder! There are constant stresses and demands from you every day that sap you of your mental energy. However, it’s critical to listen to your entire body.
If you feel fatigued or frustrated, your body is trying to tell you something valuable. Pay attention and heed the information. Slow down when your body demands rest. If you fail to do so, you risk greater physical harm. Your body will get the rest it needs one way or another, so do it the easy – and healthy – way.
At the same time, fuel your body with proper nutrition, drink plenty of water, and exercise regularly. Even light exercise gets your heart pumping and increases your energy. Your body will thank you for the effort!
If you feel frustrated or aggravated at the circumstances of life, this will affect your body as well as your mind. When your body is stressed, your muscles become tight and you’ll know that something just doesn’t feel right. Therefore, one important step in the process of getting in tune with your body is to reduce your overall stress.
One of the best things you can do is to take a break for yourself during a portion of every day. Even a few short minutes to get your thoughts straight can work wonders for reducing your stress level. Concentrate on your feelings and see if your body is offering you warning signs of trouble.
If you reduce the “mind noise” in your life, you’ll find it easier to listen to your body. When you’re hungry, heed your body’s signal that it needs fuel. Make wise choices to fuel your body for success, and you’ll be rewarded with the vitality and energy to chase after your dreams.
Listening to Cues
Your body is sending you cues all the time. Listen to them. Can your body handle being pushed further at this time, or do you need to take a step back because you’re pushing too much? If you listen to yourself, you’ll know your limits and avoid burnout.
Ways to Stay in Touch with Your Body
Here are three practical steps to listening more effectively to your body:
1. Meditation. Meditation is a productive way to get in touch with your mind and body. Take a few minutes alone each day to focus on your breathing. Learn a meditation technique and commit to a few minutes each day.
2. Yoga. Yoga keeps your body in shape while you keep in touch with your mind and spirit. This practice has the power to give you extra awareness about your body that you’ve never had access to before.
3. Start an exercise routine. Even a light exercise routine can work wonders for your body. If you get and stay in shape, you’ll be able to push yourself harder when you need to do so. You’ll also be able to recognize your limits in most situations.
Remember that your body will tell you what you need. Instead of over-thinking things, simply commit to attentively listening to your body. Choose one or more of the methods above, put a few minutes on your schedule for today, and keep your appointment with yourself. You’ll be glad you did!
Are you facing a difficult challenge? It’s comforting to know that you can get through tough times while maintaining a positive outlook throughout. When you get in better touch with yourself and understand the ups and downs of life, it makes it easier for you to persevere.
When you believe in yourself, you can go farther than you’ve ever imagined. So your first step is to believe that you’re capable of having a positive outlook. Your firm belief in yourself will help banish negative thoughts that try to plague your thinking during trying times.
The Ups and Downs of Life
You already know that life is made up of many ups and downs. When things are going great, you almost hope that it lasts forever. When things aren’t going so well, it’s sometimes hard to even imagine life getting better again.
If you’re going through a particularly trying time, it’s important to take time to grieve. No one expects you to bounce back immediately, and perhaps you’ll be a changed person. However, you can, and will, have good times again!
When the time is right, start working towards a better future and you’ll be able to experience more “ups” in life. If you’re open to this, you’ll be well on your way to a positive outlook.
Believing in Yourself
Believing in yourself is vital to a happy life. Some may say it’s trite to use phrases like: “If you can dream it, you can do it,” but as it turns out, the sentiment is true. Don’t put limits on yourself. If something is possible, then you can achieve it with a strong driving force!
During trying times, you might not believe that you’re capable of moving beyond the situation. This is the time when you need to muster up your strength and take a good look at yourself. Discover your inner strength and rely on it.
Affirmations are a great way to stay positive if you open yourself up to them. You can use these short, positive statements to communicate with your unconscious mind.
Write your own affirmations or find a book or website with affirmations that are appropriate for your situation. It’s a great way to remind yourself of your strength and good qualities. Practice every day to get the best results.
Recognizing Your True Self
Both positive and negative events bring you opportunities to get in touch with your true self. Trying times are challenges, and if you’re poised with a positive attitude, you can discover more about yourself and your capabilities.
Difficult times can give you the ability to get in touch with your values. Seek the deeper meaning of it all, and always search for the silver lining. Even the toughest and most depressing situations can be opportunities for learning, as long as you open yourself to see the lesson.
Learning for the Future
Once you’ve learned a life lesson by going through a particularly difficult situation, you can use that knowledge to help you cope with future obstacles. But instead of dwelling on the negative, focus on enjoying your life in the moment in order to maintain the positive outlook and happiness you deserve.
Do you feel anxious when the pressure’s on? Do you struggle to calm your nerves in the midst of stressful situations? These are very normal feelings. Sometimes, however, these worries can become overwhelming even in your day-to-day routines.
Extreme anxiety can inhibit your everyday life. Anxiety about a particular situation can cause you to feel worried about everything else. Anxiety can run your life if you let it, but you can take control and learn to thrive in situations that challenge your resolve.
Learning to deal effectively with anxiety is a powerful skill that will benefit you in many ways. Your relationships with others will be impacted in a positive way. You’ll go after your dreams instead of giving up easily. And your self-confidence will grow as you develop the habit of effectively responding to situations despite the fears inside of you.
If you begin to use these five strategies today, you’ll notice the difference immediately. These ideas are simple, but they have the power to revolutionize your life.
These techniques can help you cope with your anxious feelings:
1. Practice deep breathing. One of the most effective ways to cope with anxiety is deep breathing. Deep breaths get much-needed oxygen to your brain and throughout your body, relaxing your muscles. The increased air to your body and mind helps you calm down in times when you would normally become stressed out.
* When you notice that you’re beginning to get nervous, pay attention to your breathing. For a few days, practice deep breathing in a relaxed, private, comfortable environment where you’re not rushed. Put your hand on your belly, and make your hand rise and fall with each breath. Be sure to take in a slow, full breath. Exhale slowly.
* If you practice this deep breathing exercise before the moment of truth, you’ll be equipped to control your breathing when a stressful situation occurs. When the pressure is on, and you notice your heartbeat beginning to rise, simply pay attention to your breathing and do what you’ve practiced.
2. Face your fears. If you worry constantly, you may not be leaving your comfort zone often enough. Seek opportunities to stretch your mental boundaries in ways that aren’t extremely stressful. As your mind and body become used to taking on challenges in dealing with your nerves, give yourself greater challenges to increase your ability to handle them.
* If you’re in the habit of shying away from things that stress you out, purposefully put yourself into situations that you aren’t sure about. This will help you build confidence. The more steps you take outside of your comfort zone, the better equipped you’ll be when the real challenges of life cause you to feel anxious.
3. Eat nutritiously. An often-overlooked way to beat anxiety is to make sure that your body is properly fueled for the challenges it must face. Drink plenty of water. Eat a balanced breakfast. Eat small meals, and eat more often. Keep track of what you’re eating in a daily log so that you can begin to notice patterns that sabotage your health.
* When your body is fueled properly, the daily anxieties you experience will be less overwhelming.
4. Exercise. Your body is made to move. If you sit at a desk all day, you’ll likely face greater challenges with worry and stress than someone who’s always on the move. Exercise provides tremendous stress relief, an outlet for frustration and a boost to your overall self-confidence. All of these contribute to a peaceful feeling and less anxiety on a daily basis.
5. Seek professional help. Sometimes, the issues you face with anxiety may require you to seek counseling to overcome them. If you’ve tried many things without success, a mental health professional that is trained to help you overcome these challenges may be your best bet.
It’s normal to feel nervous when stressful situations occur. But without strategies to overcome those nerves, you can feel paralyzed and sabotage your chances of experiencing the success you deserve. Instead, start using these five strategies today to effectively cope with your feelings of anxiety and emerge triumphant over them.